I don`t think so… I am starting to lose all my faith to long term relations. I`m not writing this post because I`ve been ditched by my girlfriend after some years of relationship. On the contrary I am not even in a relationship right now. (Chicks! Be careful… RAWR! 😛 ) But when I look around me nowadays, for the last two years, Every long relation is coming to an end or crawling… And this end is not even a happy end.. I don`t know if all this is a bad coincidence, but it looks like all of my friends are somewhat screwing up their relationships.
From what I see, there are several reasons for all these ends… One of them being jealousy. Now, I`m not going to be a easy fella and blame one specific gender here. Every relationship has its own pace, personality, etc… But why the fuck all girls around me are acting like their guys are going to screw another female?! What is that neo-jealousy? Look, if someone is going to cheat on you, (s)he will do it no matter what… Jealousy WILL NOT HELP! On top of it, it hurts the relationship. So stop being jealous and trust your partner… Or just break up and try your luck with someone else.
One other is marriage, commitment, etc… Ok we, men, are afraid of marriage. Whole world knows it. We feel we will not be free anymore, commitment is scary, blah blah blah… BUT this doesn`t mean that we are going to spread semen all over when we see a woman at the bar… If you believe that human is a social creature, you gotto believe that your (future) husband will talk at some point of time, with a female… Again I repeat, this does not mean that the guy is hitting on her. He might have like her, and that is normal, you like airplanes, you like soccer, you like a flower, you might like a woman too. If your guy does not like a woman, there is a problem with him!
Given the fact, it is very normal to hurt him if he does something stupid with that woman… The abnormal thing is: to hurt him thinking that OH! he will screw her anyway! Hey… If your guy is screwing another girl, or thinking about it, why are you with that guy? Just ditch him! And don`t believe any lies he says abut how your relationship will be better, etc… That is bullshit! I don`t think a relation will ever be the same after you cheat on your partner. So fuck it… There are gazillions of other man… Ditch the guy and byebye
Well anyway, I started to be out of my league I guess… Longer posts, lesser readers… So yeah, the main idea is: Just relax, live your relationship, don`t push too much your partner for the things (s)he never did or will do, make your point and get over with it. If you think that things are not working out, just leave… Shit happens, and will happen…